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Why Do We Sleep?
Was God the First GREAT Perfumer?
Ok, probably not. The Egyptians definitely hold that crown, however God did show some talent in the area of perfumery.
As part of the Alternative MBA suggested by Chris Gillebeau in his book The Art of Non-Conformity, I’m reading The Bible.
Now, before you say: “What the….!!!”, wait just a minute!
It’s brilliant.
I’m only two books in, having finished Exodus late last night, and am drinking in every word. It’s filled with drama: sex, incest, husband sharing and, of course, lots of sin. Continue reading
Turned On Women Will Change the World
Described by Vanity Fair as “the latest in a long line of female pioneers who’ve helped America shake its reputation as the Land of the Repressed,” Nicole Daedone is making waves in all the right places.
Founder of Onetaste, Orgasm Meditation (also known as “OMing”), and author of Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm, Nicole is taking on the onerous task of liberating our orgasm, for within it lies a fuller experience of life, deeper connection with our parters, and the key to changing the world – a notion supported by none other than the Dalai Lama.
A slow and meditative practice where a man strokes a woman on the upper left quadrant of her clitoris for 15 minutes, Tim Ferris has dubbed it “required education for every man on the planet.” Recently invited to speak at TED, Nicole’s work is hitting the mainstream. While feedback is polarised, it’s the negative feedback that shows how far, as a society, we have to go in even discussing female orgasm. (You can view the TED video at the end of this post).
I caught up with her earlier in the year, when Onetaste were preparing for the opening of the NYC hub. She shared some insight on the practice of OM and how it feels to be in the driving seat of sexual liberation. Continue reading
How to Develop Your Perfume “Nose”
Developing your “nose” for perfumery takes some some time, practice and dedication.
It may also involve flipping any previous knowledge of how to smell on its head; studying perfumery as an aromatherapist is changing my “smelling” perspective!
As an aromatherapist vetiver smells like “vetiver” and orange smells like “orange”.
As a perfumer vetiver smells like grass and wood, and orange smells like sunshine and happiness.
This is no wonder, as in aromatherapy, the aroma is secondary to the therapeutic benefits. We create a blend with a specific goal in mind: to heal or soothe body, mind or soul.
In perfumery we might be trying to create the smell of the ocean in The Bahamas, or the forest in South Carolina. We are seduced by the scent itself. Continue reading
Look After Those Marvellous Feet!
Proper alignment of the feet is needed for strong energetic grounding, balancing and agility.
But, aside from the odd pedicure, how do you really look after your feet?
Good alignment is heavily reliant on excellent foot health, both structurally AND cosmetically.
By including your feet in your daily cleansing ritual and using essential oils to keep them looking, feeling and smelling great, you can reconnect with HAPPY and HEALTHY feet.
Your feet are important for movement, body health and in life in general; so it’s time to pay homage to the foundation of your temple! Continue reading
5 Simple Hangover Cures
These 5 simple hangover cures can help flush the toxins from your liver and help to relieve that hungover feeling.
But first……..(a little more science…)
A hangover is your liver in turmoil!
The majority of alcohol has to be metabolised by the liver so the hungover feeling is your liver struggling to flush all those toxins through your system. Despite the abuse it can suffer as part of a modern urban lifestyle, your liver is a very clever organ and can renew itself almost entirely in only six weeks. It can be reduced by up to ninety percent and still be able to regenerate itself. It filters more than a liter of blood every minute to remove bacteria and toxins from circulation.
When your liver is struggling to detox more toxins than usual, you’ll experience hangovers that range from dull headache to the shakes.
Try the following 5 simple hangover cures to recharge your liver and flush out those toxins. Continue reading
Book Review: The Art of Mindful Gardening by Ark Redwood
“There is no separation between the garden and the gardener,” says Ark Redwood, a naturalist gardener, who introduces us to the art of being in the present moment.
In The Art of Mindful Gardening, we learn that we can be mindful during any garden task: planting, watering, composting and raking, as each is, in itself, a meditation that enables us to savour the simplicity and beauty of the moment. Imagine yourself as the tiny insect on the leaf of a beautiful plant in A Plant Meditation, or simply practice mindful pottering after a busy day at work.
Join Ark as he pays homage to the energy of spring, the abundance of summer, the magic of autumn and the exhilaration of winter; as the unavoidable cycle of life unfolds and repeats.
At once a spiritual journey through the seasons, it is also a practical month-by-month guide to what needs to be done: composting in May and deadheading in July, and useful tips on slugs, mulching and copper tools.
For the avid gardener, this is a glorious tribute to your mindful art, and for the novice greenfingers, this is an exquisite introduction to the insight that: “This is a holistic universe, all is truly one.”
Eat Your Heart Out, Jimmy Choo!
“Eureka” means: a cry of joy or satisfaction when one finds or discovers something.
That’s the moment I had when I cast my eye on the above beauty, also known as a “Lady’s Slipper”; it was clear why flowers have inspired hundreds of poems, literature, fashion, romance and, yes, even shoes!
Resembling a tiny slipper the size of my thumbnail, I thought of Jimmy Choo and wondered whether he and other inspired designers of shoes had ever cast their eyes on this orchid.
There’s definitely two schools of thought when it comes to flowers: “love” and “apathy”.
I remember when I was in the latter group; I was never interested in flowers as a child.
“You will be one day,” said my mother to my 7 year old self as she gazed at the zillionth field of poppies with reverie.
Like many children, I was certain that I would not, yet now I’m drawn to local botanical gardens like a bee to honey, enchanted and awed by the grandeur of the smallest of blooms.
But what is it about flowers that inspires, seduces and mesmerises? That inspires colour palates, design and love poems? Continue reading
The Hypnotic Power of Smell and Why We Don’t Know More
Ever wondered why that guy at work who irritates the cr*p out of you also makes you hot under the collar? Or why the smell of brownies makes you salivate and feel all warm and fuzzy inside?
It’s only recently that the study of the behavioural impact of smells and aromas has been given a name: Aromachology.
And this next thing may surprise you: smell has been the lesser researched and, as a result, lesser understood of the senses.
But why? Continue reading
Laugh In the Face of Stretch Marks
It’s one of those things that expectant mothers consider frequently: how to avoid stretch marks.
Belly, bum, breasts and thighs, oh my!
A concern for expecting mothers of any age, some women get them and some women don’t. The thing is, you won’t know till after your first pregnancy, so it’s hard to know whether you need to take preventative measures.
Either way, it’s good to keep your delicate belly skin nourished, and give baby a mini massage to boot, so treat yourself to a beautiful combination of essential oils and carrier oils to keep your belly, breasts and thighs hydrated and moisturised. Continue reading
Don’t Trifle With Cinnamon Bark CO2 – That Sh*t Burns!
Not to alarm you with sensational claims about the dangers of Cinnamon bark, but, seriously, I sustained a pretty painful burn the other day and it didn’t even come in contact with my skin.
It made me realise that:
- Our understanding is deepened by mistakes and accidents
- Our own experience takes the theory we glean from books one step further
Here’s how the incident unfolded:
- I’m sitting at my perfume lab, poised to study Cinnamon Bark C02, vial open in front of me.
- Reaching for a scent strip, I knock the vial over.
- I soak the spillage up with watercolour paper so that I can at least savour the fragrance for as long as possible.
- I place the scent strip between my teeth to avoid contamination with the kitchen surface, as I washed my hands (I know, Ayala, if you’re reading this, I know!).
- Within a few seconds I notice a tingling on my lips, mouth and cheeks.
- The tingling morphs into PAIN as I realise that my skin is *burning*.
- Holy cr*p!
Essential Oils for a Happy, Balanced Thyroid
I have not a shadow of a doubt in my mind that you know someone with some kind of thyroid issue.
Whether under or over active, symptoms can be quite severe and make day to day life difficult to adjust to in the initial days and weeks. 3 close friends of mine likened their experience of it prior to diagnosis to absolute madness. While they each chose to follow conventional allopathic treatments, I, ever the optimistic aromatherapist, want to let you know that a combination of carefully selected essential oils can be extremely effective for helping to treat the physical symptoms of thyroid disorders.
If that were all I was about to share with you, I don’t think I would have become an aromatherapist in the first place! Their real USP (unique selling point) is their ability to create a positive state of mind and relieve stress. Yup, that’s just one reason to explore this sensory healing experience.
In this post I’ve selected 5 effective essential oils that can be used for treating an under-active thyroid to give you an idea of how they can help (FYI there are dozens more out of the 300-odd we use in aromatherapy).
Obscuring Our Natural Scent Could be Paralysing a Primal Sense
Snowflakes skittered in the wind, and Shams leaned forward to pull my shawl tighter. For a passing moment, I stood frozen, inhaling his smell. It was a mixture of sandalwood and soft amber with a faint, crisp tang underneath, like the smell of earth under the rain.
-Excerpt from The Forty Rules of Love: A Novel of Rumi
by Elif Shafak, Penguin Books
What a marvellous description of Sham’s smell! This book is a feast in itself, and as I savoured these words this morning, I began thinking about our natural scent and how rare it is to both reveal it, and smell it on others.
We spend a great deal of time and money masking our natural odours, often considering them antisocial, with mouthwash, deodorants, perfumes, and scented creams etc. Even the hormones in our foods and the contraceptive pill may have a hand in obscuring our natural smell. Aristotle himself said that pleasant odours contribute to the well-being of mankind, but if you consider that our natural scent is important for primal things such as sussing people out and finding a mate, could we be inadvertently paralysing one of our key senses?
In The Scented Ape: The Biology and Culture of Human Odour, Michael Stoddart says that our gut reaction to the people we meet has something to do with a subconscious awareness of the pheromones they produce. Smell, whether overt or perceptible only at a subconscious level, has a huge impact on whether we like someone or not, and can even impact who we developfriendships, relationships and business partnerships with. Could this be the reason why divorce is so high and I am still single? Was my soulmate’s true scent masked by laundry detergent and his shower gel?!
The Dark Side of Cacao
Like you, I am seduced by the aroma, flavour and endorphins of any form off cacao: the purest of delights and the simplest of pleasures. In researching the country of origin I came across a shocking fact that sobered my aromatic reverie: child slaves are used to harvest the cacao beans in Cote D’Ivoire in Africa. For 3 years I’ve been unaware that one of my favourite aromas comes with a dark side.
My cacao odyssey started a while back when I was living on Venice Beach, CA, when I wrote An Ode to Cacao Absolute. My friend, Fran, had just introduced me to the dark, viscous liquid and I was in awe as to how much it smelled and felt like pure liquid chocolate. Now I’m revisiting Cacao absolute in a different capacity; as a perfumer. And I have to say, falling in love again has never felt so good. I have to admit, though, that when I’m closing my eyes and trying to *feel* the fragrance note, all I come up with is “chocolate”; I’m well aware that my nose needs a little training when it comes to smelling outside of the proverbial fragrance box! What really caught my eye is the origin of my particular sample: France. Thinking that a little strange for this tropical bean, I did a little online research to discover the countries that produce both Cacao absolute, and grow the cacao beans themselves.
Tending the Earth; Mending the Spirit
“In both a literal and a figurative way, a garden can help us come to out senses. When we step into our gardens we are submerged in sights, smells, sounds and textures.
This is a wake-up call for the part of our brain that processes experience directly and intuitively, instead of categorising and analysing it in a detached way. When this part of the brain is stimulated, we tend to become more aware of the sensations and emotions that underlie our busy, rational mid.
A garden gives us a chance to remain silent and alone with our feelings, to empty the mind of past and present in order to experience more fully the present moment.”
- From “Tending the Earth, Mending the Spirit: The Healing Gifts of Gardening”, by Connie Goldman & Richard Mahler, Hazelden 2000
Skincare that Creates the Wow! Factor
It’s no secret.
Essential oils are bl**dy amazing beauty elixirs.
I can’t tell you how many people, including complete strangers, tell me that my skin literally *glows*.
The ritual application is also a daily pleasure; the aromas make the latest face cleaning task a ritual I cannot do without!
The versatility of essential oils never cease to amaze me.
Unlike the lotions and potions you find in the supermarket or beauty halls, many of them can restore balance to any skin type, plumping up dry skin and balancing out overly oily skin.
If ever there was a skincare range that was able to restore a perfectly soft and supple complexion to any skin type, including conditions like rosacea and acne, it’s definitely essential oils that will continue to wow! you.
Here’s a brief look at why and which oils to use for your skin type.
Raw Food Recipe: Avocado and Lime Soup
You be be thinking that there is a tenuous link between my blog content and a raw food recipe, but let me set you straight!
Taste is 80% smell!
And without smell, you’d never experience the AMAZING taste sensation of this divine recipe for Avocado and Lime soup. I simply had to share it with you.
I know that many of you will be new to the idea of “raw” food (simply eating more uncooked food, including the freshest and tastiest fruits, veggies, nuts and seeds you can find) and don’t yet know how extremely delicious it can be!
Hopefully this recipe from fabulous raw chef Russell James, (also known as THE Raw Chef!) will get those taste buds tingling!
How to Start Using Essential Oils – For Beautiful Skin
In Waking Up to Conscious Beauty I mentioned that using essential oils in skincare had a positive and amazing impact on mind-body health; if your skincare products are absorbed by your skin, why not make them as pure and as beautifullu (and naturally) aromatic as possible?!
Here’s a little more on why this is NOT a new concept (they’ve been used for THOUSANDS of years) and how to add them into your daily skincare.
Essential oils for mind-body health
The ability of essential oils to positively impact mind-body health has been well documented since the art of distillation was refined in Persia in the eleventh century.
The process was perfected in order to produce rose water, which was prescribed as a cure for digestive tract complaints. It became very popular and was exported to China, Europe and India to be used for culinary and medicinal purposes.

















